The Ultimate List Of ‘Would You Rather’ Questions For Couples

Are you ready to spice up your relationship? Here are almost 200 ‘Would You Rather’ questions for couples that will help you Really Get to know your partner. No, you won’t learn about their favorite movies or where they went to college. This game is intended to make you wonder how humans have survived for so long. Whether it be their values, habits, or bedroom fantasies, there’s no better way to learn about someone you’re dating! 

These questions are great for first dates and long-term relationships. ‘Would You Rather’ It is a great way for you to start a deep and meaningful discussion. It’s also a great way to foreplay because some of the questions are a little naughty. Don’t worry though, you can easily skip those if you don’t think your relationship is ready for that yet. Some questions might be more gross than you expected. You might want to keep a bag of barf in your hand. 

These questions are meant make you laugh, cry, feel good, or to get you thinking about the tough stuff. Each question will challenge you to have a deeper relationship with your partner. After the game is over, you will likely see your partner differently (which could be a good thing or a problem). It’s not something to be taken too seriously though, so make sure to have fun with it. It’s just a game after all. 

Now please enjoy the list of ‘Would You Rather’ questions for couples we’ve compiled. 

Flirty First Date Question

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  1. Would you rather not fall in love, or with every person you meet?
  2. Would you rather communicate only on Post-It Notes or with a megaphone?
  3. Would you prefer matching tattoos to piercings
  4. Would you rather dance or sing at the karaoke bars?
  5. Would you rather meet your celebrity crush at 6:30 AM after being out all night or just before getting out of bed?
  6. Would you rather be with a passionate lover or a quiet one?
  7. Would you rather be able to read your pet’s mind or your partner’s mind?
  8. Would you prefer to speak in a whisper or a baby voice for the rest of my life?
  9. Would you rather date someone who has dated men and/or women, or men and/or women?
  10.  Would you rather let me shave your hair off or eyebrows?
  11. Would you rather text all night or talk on your phone?
  12. Would you rather your dog be a savage to your mother or your partner?
  13. Would you rather have sex with no love or sex with love?
  14. Would you rather fly first-class to anywhere in the world or have front row seats to your favorite band?
  15. Would you rather have the ability to teleport but only if you’re naked or the ability to fly but only when you flap your arms like wings?
  16. Would you rather know how long you’ll be with a partner or never know?
  17. Would you rather not fall in love?
  18. Would you rather be forced to sing the text messages you receive loudly or shout your responses to people when you are in public?
  19. Would you rather have no internet access for a month or your favorite food for a whole year?
  20. Would you rather have sex indoors or outdoors?
  21. Would you rather have great friends or the best friend?
  22. Would you rather give someone unlimited access to your phone’s photos or text messages?
  23. Would you prefer a chocolate fondue to strawberries and cream?
  24. Would you rather be with an overly shy partner or a loud one?
  25. Would you rather be told the truth at all times or sometimes be lied to?
  26. Are you more likely to spend your vacation relaxing at a resort beach than on an action-packed adventure hiking, kayaking, and traversing the mountains?
  27. Would you rather be very similar to your partner or completely different?
  28. Do you prefer to be in a long-term relationship or to date for a while?
  29. Would you rather have a starter, main or dessert?
  30. Would you rather send flowers than receive them?
  31. Would you rather know where you are going on your date or be surprised?
  32. Would you prefer a partner with opposing political views, or a sense of humor that is incompatible?

Funny Questions

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  1. Would you rather have three or two more fingers on each side?
  2. Would you rather have “Professional Kite Flyer” or “Professional Sock Model” on your resume?
  3. Would you rather be stuck in a dessert made from Legos with no shoes or wear shoes all day?
  4. Would you prefer to only wear shoes indoors, or sunglasses at night?
  5. Would you prefer your nose to grow twice as fast as your body hair?
  6. Would you rather have an urge to pee everytime you get a message or lose a hair every time your email arrives?
  7. Would you rather be a villain in Marvel or a muggle from a wizarding family in Harry Potter?
  8. Would you rather have to sit criss-cross-applesauce every time you sat or have to lay straight as a board on your back every time you lay down?
  9. Would you rather have hands as big as a Barbie doll’s or hands as small and flexible like a foam finger?
  10. Would you rather be kidnapped or investigated by the IRS?
  11. Would you rather defend yourself against robots with human-like minds or fast zombies?
  12. Would your rather get stuck in a horror movie where you’re always the target or a war movie where you’re on the front line?
  13. Would you rather never shave again?
  14. Would you rather have ten dogs who share your bed or a cow who shares your bed?
  15. Would you rather your partner watch your text messages or your bank statements, or both?
  16. What would you prefer on a first date? A noticeable zit or diarrhea?
  17. Would you rather wear your Halloween costumes to work on the wrong days or drive to work every Saturday by accident?
  18. Would you rather be stuck in an elevator with someone who won’t make eye contact with you or someone who won’t stop staring? 
  19.  Would you rather your partner read your childhood journal or browse through photos from your awkward stage?
  20. Would you rather marry in sequins, or wear sweatpants to work?
  21. Would you rather every meal you eat be too salty, or overcooked?
  22. Would you prefer to not shower for a week, or to wear the same socks for a whole year?
  23. Would you rather travel back in time to any year in your life or travel to the future for at least 200 years?
  24. Would you rather slip and fall in front your future in-laws than a potential employer
  25. Would you rather go on an intimate date with a former drug addict or ex-convict?
  26. Would you rather get a terrible present from your partner than no gift?
  27. Would you rather have a partner who hates dogs and is rude to waiters?
  28. Would you rather support your partner’s unrealistic dreams of becoming a famous rapper or an Instagram influencer?
  29. Would you rather be backstage with a favorite band or as an extra on your favorite TV program?
  30. Would you rather work with Dwight Schrute, or Peter Griffin?
  31. Would you rather make enough money in a job that you hate and can retire from in 20 or minimum wage in a job that you love, but you could never retire?
  32. Would you rather have control over the weather wherever you go or be able to teleport to any place you’ve already been?
  33. Would you rather have anchovies or pineapple on your pizza all your life?
  34. Would you rather have your cat behave like a dog, or a cat behave like a pet?
  35. Would you rather not use streaming services or social networks again?
  36. Would you rather have your firstborn Frankenstein named or at least six children?

Deep Questions

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  1. Would you rather live longer, be in a better physical condition and live longer?
  2. Do you prefer to live in an RV and travel the world or in a large home with three bedrooms and never leave?
  3. Would you rather be on a deserted island with an engineer or doctor? 
  4. Would you rather forget your favorite memories or relive your worst?
  5. Would you rather lose all digital photos or all saved text conversations?
  6. Would you rather be married to someone you settle with for the rest or single for the entire life?
  7. Would you rather have matching tattoos with someone new or let your ex create a tattoo?
  8. Would you rather do your laundry or clean dishes by snapping your fingers?
  9. Would you rather date someone who takes selfies all day or one who takes pictures of their food every meal?
  10. Would you rather have a child with someone you don’t love or never have a child at all?
  11. Would you rather know how you’re going to die or when?
  12. Would you rather have your future or past viewed at will, like a movie?
  13. Would you prefer that your hair would never go grey or that your face never wrinkles?
  14. Would you rather die suddenly and painlessly or suffer a slow, painful death from something like Cancer?
  15. Would you rather go blind or deaf?
  16. Would you rather use a nuclear bomb to kill millions of people in a major urban area or the person you most love?
  17. Would you rather end hunger in the world or homelessness in the world?
  18. Would you rather live with mosquitoes than with spiders?
  19. Would you prefer to have more time with less money or more freedom?
  20. Would you rather go ziplining or bungee jumping on your first date?
  21. Would you rather live with 27-year-olds or 47-years-olds for the rest of your lives?
  22. Would you rather live as a dog or bird?
  23. Would you rather be invisible than always at the center of attention?
  24. Would you rather be attractive but unintelligent, or intelligent but unattractive.
  25. Would you rather be in a relationship with someone who never says “I love you” or never kisses you in public?
  26. Would you rather spend time with your partner in the jungle, or in a foreign country?
  27. Would you rather have your partner turn into a zombie, or discover that they were a humanoid robotic robot?
  28. Do you prefer to go for a long, leisurely walk or a long car ride?
  29. Would you rather hold your partner’s hand for four hours or never hold their hand again?
  30. Would you rather marry someone who doesn’t do dishes or cleans the toilet?
  31. Would you rather lose long-term memories or short-term memories?
  32. Would you rather live in an old house haunted and relive a day of your life?
  33. Do you prefer to go back to kindergarten knowing everything you know or knowing everything your future self will know?
  34. Would you rather be married to someone stunning who doesn’t think you’re attractive or be married to someone ugly who thinks you’re gorgeous?
  35. Would you rather have $1 million now, or $1,000 per week for the rest your life?
  36. Would you rather be able to erase your own unpleasant memories or be able to erase someone else’s unpleasant memories of you?
  37. Would you rather save your best friend’s life if it meant five strangers would die or save five strangers if it meant sacrificing your best friend?

Asking Awkward and Impossible Questions

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  1. Would you rather have your partner’s annoying best friend be there all the time or an ex who tries to get them back every chance he gets?
  2. Would you rather have someone who hated your favorite film or music genre?
  3. Would you rather go back to prevent Hitler’s rise or go back in history to stop the Covid-19 pandemic from happening?
  4. Would you rather work underground or on Mars?
  5. Would you rather speak every language fluently, or be able to play every instrument at a professional level. 
  6. Would you rather get bitten by a shark than a poisonous snake or a shark?
  7. Would you rather share your bathroom with an elephant or a doe?
  8. Would you rather wake up in a tub of ice without a kidney or wake up tied to a stranger’s bedpost covered in blood?
  9. Would you rather pee a lot every time your sneezes or cry every time your farts?
  10. Would you rather eat brains than testicles?
  11. Would you rather be without social media or books for a whole year?
  12. Do you prefer to have trouble falling asleep, or waking up every morning?
  13. Would you rather be an amateur wrestler or a dog food tester?
  14. Would you rather go to Russia or Antarctica?
  15. Would you rather go vegan for one year or give up chocolate all together?
  16. Would you rather eat frozen meals or cereal?
  17. Would you rather live in a damp basement or a dusty attic than a clean, dry one?
  18. Would you rather spend a night in Michael Myers’ house or The Murder House on American Horror Story?
  19. Would you rather be an athlete who can compete professionally or intelligent enough that you are considered a genius? 
  20. Would you rather be the richest person on the planet or live forever?
  21. Would you rather have your shoes three sizes too large or two sizes too small?
  22. Would you rather know the exact beginning and end of the universe?
  23. Would you rather speak like Steve Urkle, or breathe like Dark Vader for your entire life?
  24. Would you rather have 10 elephant puppies or 10 elephant puppies?
  25. Would you rather wear go-go boots or a clown wig to work for a whole year?
  26. Would you prefer a smaller neck or a larger forehead?
  27. Would you rather be covered in snow or sand?
  28. Would you rather have an intimate one-night-stand with your celebrity crush in 30 year’s or a brief-term relationship with a D-list celebrity who is mediocre?
  29. Would you prefer to use dial-up internet, or a home phone without caller ID, instead of a cell phone?
  30. Would you rather hit every red line or choose the longest line for your entire life?
  31.  Would you rather cheat on your partner and have to confess or catch your partner cheating on you?
  32. Would you rather take a pill every day for nutrients and feel full or eat what you want, but never feel full?
  33. Would you rather always have an annoying song stuck in your head or always have an itch that you can’t reach?
  34. Would you rather aliens be real and covered-up by the government, or none at all?

Dirty and Sexy Questions

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  1. Would you rather your porn viewing history become public or accidentally send a nude picture to a parent?
  2. Would you rather have a quickie at an airport bathroom than a college dorm room shower?
  3. Would you rather walk in front of your parents than have them walk in front of you?
  4. Do you prefer to be tied up or the one who ties up your partner?
  5. Would you prefer that your partner gives you a sensual massaging or performs a sexy routine for you?
  6. Would you rather have your foreplay include whip cream, or ice cubes
  7. Would you rather be a sexy schoolgirl than a princess Leia?
  8. Would you prefer to have sex in the bathroom or in a park?
  9. Would you prefer to be slathered with chocolate syrup or massage oils?
  10. Would you rather have a quickie each day or sex for 4 hours once a week?
  11. Would you rather get your earlobes bitten than spanked?
  12. Would you rather be blindfolded, or hog-tied?
  13. Would you rather play naked Twister, or strip poker?
  14. Would you rather sext than have phone sex?
  15. Would you rather bring a toy or food into your bedroom?
  16. Would you rather find your partner naked at home or dressed in something sexy when you return?
  17. Would you rather your partner buy a dozen roses for you or a new toy?
  18. Would you rather accidentally send a message to a friend or a family member than to a colleague?
  19. Would you rather not receive oral care again or have it never again?
  20. Would you rather have the best sexual experience of your life once a month or mediocre sex every single day?
  21. Would you rather find your parent’s sex tape or accidentally send them yours?
  22. Would you rather not have oral sex or never again have penetrative?
  23. Do you prefer to play with hot wax, or with a dildo instead?
  24. Would you prefer to have only oral sex every day or anal sex only once a month?
  25. Would you rather make porn together or watch porn together?
  26. Would you rather have BDSM or a trio?
  27. Would you rather have sex with someone who smelled like bad milk or someone who smells like they’ve rolled around in dog crap?
  28. Would you rather be paid once to perform porn or ten years as a stripper?
  29. Would you rather have sex at the beach without a towel or in a green pool?
  30. Would you rather have mind-blowing, but only once a year, or mediocre orgasms every single day?
  31. Would you rather play nipple or role-play?

Neat and Weird Questions

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  1. Would you rather wear your partner’s underwear or use their toothbrush?
  2. Would you rather have terrible breath or constant gas for the rest of your days?
  3. Would you rather your partner have toe fungus?
  4. Would you prefer farts that smell like rotting flesh or sweat that smells like gasoline to your farts?
  5. Would you rather clean up the blood, brain matter, and urine after a crime or clean up after a flood at a public toilet?
  6. Would you rather eat a stranger’s dirty toenail clippings or drink a glass of water from an old flower vase?
  7. Would you prefer to use a paper or a leaf of lettuce instead of toilet papers?
  8. Would you rather urinate in someone’s mouth once or fart out of it for the rest of life?
  9. Would you rather be smacked in the face with a stranger’s sweaty armpit or find a wad of gum stuck in your hair?
  10. Would you rather have possum roadkill than your pet?
  11. Would you rather have a permanent cut on your butt or shave your eyebrows only once?
  12. Would you rather have a family member die to ensure survival or all starve to death?
  13. Would you rather feel the urge to pee, or the urge poop?
  14. Would you rather have dentures or a diaper every single day?
  15. Would you rather have sex on Earth with an alien race or never again?
  16. Would you rather become The Hulk when you get angry, or Austin Powers when you get horny.
  17. Which would you prefer, your underwear at work, or naked in the woods 20 minutes away?
  18. Would you prefer it to rain acid once a YEAR or rain feces every month?
  19. Would you rather be surrounded by thousands of spiders and webs in a hallway or eat an antula? 
  20. Would you rather eat a whole raw onion or drink a full bottle of mayonnaise instead?
  21. Would you rather go to jail for five years or stay in a coma 15 years?
  22. Would you prefer to give up toothpaste and deodorant for the rest your life?
  23. Would you rather be 2 feet taller than 2 feet shorter?
  24. Would you rather have the worst smelling farts and not know it or always smell other people’s farts?
  25. Would you rather find a horse’s decapitated head in your bed or a dead mouse cooked into a meal you’ve already eaten half of?
  26. Would you rather spend a day in pain every time you smile, or have all your teeth removed instantly?
  27. Would you rather eat only pizza for the rest your life or never again eat it?
  28. Would you rather have a third finger on each hand or seven fingers?
  29. Would you rather have ranch on everything or never eat ranch again?
  30. Would you rather get a dark tattoo or have plastic surgery done in the Dominican Republic?
  31. Would you rather have sour milk than soap on your teeth?
  32. Would you rather clean the toilet with your toothbrush, or the floor with your tongue.
  33. Would you rather have your hair washed twice a years or be able check your phone once per day?
  34. Would you prefer a permanent unibrow, or no eyebrows?
  35. Would you rather have a hickey than a wetwilly?