Looking forward. Selena Gomez revealed her hopes for a family and why she doesn’t see herself staying in Hollywood for the rest of her life.
“I hope to be married and to be a mom,” the Only Murders in the House star, 34, said on an August episode of the TATATU series, “Giving Back Generation,” with her friends Raquelle StevensAnd Amy Cook.
While speaking about her hopes for the future, Gomez made it clear that she doesn’t think she’ll stay in the limelight. “Eventually, I’m going to be tired of all of this, so I’m probably just going to devote most of my life to philanthropy before I peace out,” she said.
Her friends laughed at her dark tone as the “Wolves” singer added, “Just keeping it real.”
She wants her family to be authentic. Gomez said that hubris was a sign of a personality trait that is unacceptable to her loved ones. “I can’t deal with an egotistical person,” the former Wizards of Waverly PlaceStar said. “I have zero patience. We all are the same people. We all shit, we all eat … we all bleed red. That’s the way life is.”
The “Giving Back Generation” episode also featured a discussion about love languages. Gomez explained that her needs are slightly different for romantic partners than friends. When she said she likes physical affection, Stevens noted that the Grammy-nominated singer doesn’t always let friends hug her.
“I want a husband and I want that kind of touch,” Gomez laughed, adding, “I think my love language would have to be physical touch … and acts of service. The older I’ve gotten the more I really appreciate that.”
She continued: “I went and hung out with someone who was a bit older and it was just so wonderful. It was like being taken care off in a way. Being like, ‘Are you comfortable? Do you need a blanket?’ Just very sweet things. And I was like, ‘I’m fine, I don’t need anything.’ But it was just so kind and I don’t feel like a lot of people are like that anymore.”
Gomez, who is single, was seen vacationing in Italy with Andrea IervolinoThis happened earlier this month. The 34-year-old Italian film producer assisted her in getting into the water. They spent the day together on a yacht, eating with friends, and soaking up the sun. But she is still single, and she is looking for her husband.