Lower whereas only a lady in her native Guinea, Hawa Bah – who now lives in Leeds – helps present a lifeline to different survivors of genital mutilation
Hawa Bah was simply eight years previous, when she was taken to the forest by her father’s second spouse and lower by a lady from their neighbourhood, in Guinea. “I realised one thing was lacking from me after that. I wasn’t full any extra,” she says.
Aged 13, Bah was pressured to marry a person 37 years her senior who already had three wives. “In our tradition, you’re not allowed to say ‘no’ to your dad and mom. It’s important to pay attention and obey, in any other case you get crushed.”
Her husband was sexually and bodily abusive, and Bah has misplaced rely of her makes an attempt to flee him. He and her father paid the police to search out her, after which they beat her. Aged 17, she lastly managed to flee with the assistance of a pal – an older aunt determine – and an support company who flew her to the UK. “I’d by no means heard of the UK earlier than. I didn’t communicate English and I didn’t know the place I used to be going. I used to be considering they’d bought me into slavery.”
As she waited for the Dwelling Workplace to course of her asylum declare and commenced adjusting to a brand new life, Bah endured the long-term penalties of feminine genital mutilation (FGM.) She skilled itching and had issue passing urine. However for years she was afraid to hunt medical care.
“It’s exhausting to speak about it, due to the brainwashing. If you undergo FGM, you’re informed it’s confidential – if you happen to disclose it, you’ll die,” she says.
Now 32, Bah helps fellow survivors on the Blossom Clinic in Leeds. The clinic was initially launched by the NHS as a part of a nationwide pilot scheme in 2019, offering medical and psychological help to girls – and a few trans males – who’ve skilled FGM. Specialist midwives make assessments and carry out surgical procedures if needed.
Bah is the clinic’s advocate: her function is to attach with survivors inside the Leeds neighborhood and provides them the arrogance to entry the clinic’s companies. She holds their palms throughout surgical procedures, refers them for counselling and interprets English for individuals who want it – in addition to her mom tongue, Fula, she speaks French and pidgin English.
For years Bah was afraid to hunt medical care. Now she helps others search help. Picture: India Hobson
One of many greatest challenges is getting traumatised girls via the door within the first place, Bah says. “However they see me, they usually know that I’m one in all them. I’m a survivor too.”
Her candour about her personal expertise helps them to beat their fears. “I’m selecting to come back ahead, discuss it and I’m not useless. [It shows them that] anybody can discuss it, they usually gained’t die.”
Bah finds girls by way of phrase of mouth and her personal neighborhood hyperlinks, in addition to via refugee help organisations. She offers talks and distributes multilingual flyers, which she encourages GP practices to put up of their loos (“as a result of if you’re in the bathroom, you’ve obtained time to search for and browse”).
They see me, they usually know that I’m one in all them. I’m a survivor too
The Blossom Clinic will stay completely following the success of its pilot scheme, and Bah is optimistic in regards to the future. Her work has helped her personally too, she says: “Supporting different girls retains me going, it makes me stronger. I don’t let anybody pull me down. I don’t let my previous pull me down.”
In her spare time, she finds pleasure in seeing pals and in cooking. Her specialities embody the rice dish riz gras, fish, peanut soup and cassava leaves. “Folks love my meals,” she provides. She hopes to remarry in the future and have youngsters.
Bah will proceed talking out till there’s “zero FGM on the earth”, she says. “They declare that FGM is to maintain the lady clear. However it’s all about empowering males.
“I don’t need any lady or individual to undergo what I’ve been via. If we need to finish this, we will’t hold silent.”
Principal picture: India Hobson
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