Millie Bobby Brown didn’t know marriage was on the desk for her — till assembly fiancé Jake Bongiovi.
“My dream was to have a child. I wished to be the girl that my mother is to me and I wished to be the girl that my grandmother was to me,” Brown, 19, shared in her Glamour cowl story, printed on Monday, October 16. “In order that was by no means my, like, intention, to be a spouse.”
Nonetheless, her “weird” reference to Bongiovi, 21, modified every part for the Stranger Issues star.
“After assembly Jake and seeing, ‘Oh, I don’t must be this stereotypical spouse for him. He doesn’t need me to be that both. He desires me to go and do my factor and stay my life, and he’ll maintain my hand within the means of that.’ I used to be like, ‘Oh, I do need this,’” Brown added.

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Brown and Bongiovi met at what she known as “a extremely … attention-grabbing time.” They first sparked romance rumors in June 2021 and confirmed their relationship with a PDA-filled picture in November of that yr. They introduced their engagement in April.
Whereas she’s seen the general public criticism about getting engaged at such a younger age, Brown doesn’t appear to care.
“We have been modeled fantastic, loving relationships,” she defined. “So, it’s one thing that we each had that mutual drive for.”
It helps that she’s shut along with her fiancé’s household, who’ve been “splendidly accepting.” (Bongiovi’s dad is Jon Bon Jovi.)
As for why she loves Bongiovi? “He’s so form,” Brown gushed over her fiancé. “And his coronary heart is simply loving and fantastic and good.”

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Earlier than assembly her future husband, Brown stated she was “so upset with myself and the selections I had made,” referring to a previous relationship. Previous to going public with Bongiovi, TikTok star Hunter Ecimovic made specific claims about Brown in July 2021.
“I acquired tricked. I acquired taken benefit of, if something,” he claimed, partly, on the time. “She used her powers on me, and I acquired manipulated.”
He has since apologized for the feedback. Brown mirrored on the expertise throughout an interview with Attract in August 2022, saying it made her really feel “very susceptible.” She added, “I felt so uncontrolled and powerless.”
Assembly Bongiovi — Brown beforehand revealed that their romantic connection began by way of Instagram — modified her notion on relationships.
“I believe I used to be so afraid to be a powerful lady in a relationship,” Brown defined to Glamour. “After I met Jake, I simply felt I may very well be loud. He embraced that and inspired that. And I fell in love with myself whereas being with him.”
At one level of their relationship, Brown requested Bongiovi why he beloved her. He “listed all these items that I hated about myself,” she recalled.
“These are issues that I really like about myself now,” Brown added. “He was a extremely large, enormous a part of me loving myself and changing into a girl. It was like, ‘Wow, I actually love this particular person as a result of he permits me to like myself.’”
