

Katherine Heigl, Ellen Pompeo. Jim Smeal/BEI/Shutterstock ; Selection/Youtube (3)
Critically overdue. Gray’s Anatomy‘s Ellen Pompeo and Katherine Heigl sat down for a frank dialogue about their profession for Selection‘s Actors on Actors, which debuted on Tuesday, June 6.
” I used to be so naive. I acquired on my soapbox and I had some issues to say, and I felt actually keen about these items,” Heigl, 44, recalled of her headline-making days main as much as her exit from Gray’s. “I felt actually strongly. I felt so strongly that I additionally acquired a megaphone out on my soapbox. There was no a part of me that imagined a nasty response. I felt actually justified in how I felt about it and the place I used to be coming from. I’ve spent most of my life — I believe most girls do — being in that people-pleasing mode. It’s actually disconcerting if you really feel like you’ve got actually displeased all people. It was not my intention to take action, however I had some issues to say, and I didn’t suppose I used to be going to get such a robust response.”
She added that she began to imagine she was a “dangerous” particular person amid backlash. “I actually believed that model, and felt such disgrace for such a very long time, after which needed to go, ‘Wait. Who am I listening to? I’m not even listening to myself. I do know who I’m,’” Heigl recalled.
Pompeo, 53, stated Heigl was a trailblazer. “You had been just a bit early, as a result of they got here out with this factor the place all people has their very own megaphone they usually get a blue examine. It’s known as Twitter. You had been just a bit forward of your time, girl,” the actress stated.
The actress, who performs fan-favorite character Meredith Gray, added that compassion is vital. “There needs to be some forgiveness, or some grace, for not all people with the ability to deal with each state of affairs completely,” she reasoned. “I’ve definitely by no means dealt with each state of affairs completely. I’d wish to see different folks attempt to stroll a mile in your footwear throughout that point, and let’s see how they might’ve dealt with it.”
The reunion got here greater than 13 years after Heigl left the ABC medical drama. The Firefly Lane star appeared as Izzie Stevens for greater than 100 episodes of Gray’s Anatomy till leaving the collection midway by way of taking pictures season six in 2010.
Her exit got here after a public feud with creator Shonda Rhimes that began when Heigl publicly criticized the present’s writing. In a 2008 Self-importance Honest cowl story, Heigl known as Izzie and George O’Malley’s (T.R. Knight) affair “a rankings ploy,” including that she wished to see extra “cooperation between the enterprise finish and the inventive finish.”
Months later, the Roswell alum drew ire after withdrawing her identify from consideration for the Emmys, one 12 months after successful Finest Supporting Actress in a Drama.
“I didn’t really feel that I used to be given the fabric this season to warrant an Emmy nomination and in an effort to keep up the integrity of the academy group, I withdrew my identify from competition,” she stated in an announcement on the time. “As well as, I didn’t wish to doubtlessly take away a possibility from an actress who was given such supplies.”

In Lynette Rice’s 2021 e book, How one can Save a Life: The Inside Story of Gray’s Anatomy, Heigl mirrored on the controversy.
“I assumed I used to be doing the best factor. And I wished to be clear that I wasn’t snubbing the Emmys. The evening I received was the spotlight of my profession. I simply was afraid that if I stated, ‘No remark,’ it was going to return off like I couldn’t be bothered,” the 27 Clothes star famous.
She added that she regrets how she dealt with the problem. “I might have extra gracefully stated that with out going into a non-public work matter,” Heigl defined. “It was between me and the writers. I ambushed them and it wasn’t very good or honest.”
Finally, the Knocked Up star was written out in season 6 along with her closing episode airing in 2010.
“I used to be simply vibrating at method too excessive of a degree of hysteria,” Heigl informed Pompeo throughout their Actors on Actors chat. “For me, it’s all a little bit of a blur, and it took me years to discover ways to take care of that, to grasp it. I can’t even say that I’ve mastered it, however to even know to work on it, that anxiousness and worry — and stress is stress. And for those who depart stress too lengthy, unmanaged and unaddressed, it may be debilitating.”
As a producer, Pompeo is making an attempt to assist actors take care of the stress that Heigl confronted. “This isn’t particular to the character of Izzie leaving, however stress on units … I’ve solely been on one set my entire total profession, so I assume folks might critique this remark, however I hear quite a lot of tales; I don’t hear about quite a lot of help,” she stated. “That’s one of many issues I attempt to do now as a producer, particularly on Gray’s, is attempt to supply help — attempt to have a spot for folks to speak by way of issues. There was nobody to inform me, ‘That is OK. This isn’t OK.’ There’s a really exploitive nature to what we do. ”
The “Inform Me With Ellen Pompeo” podcast host, in the meantime, stepped down as a collection common within the nineteenth season, which completed airing final month. She stays a narrator and govt producer on the present, making occasional visitor appearances. The Massachusetts native will return for season 20 within the fall.