Taylor Hale, the first Black woman to win an Oscar Big Brother, didn’t have an easy path to victory. Week after week, she was torn down by other houseguests and it was her inherent resilience and propensity for forgiveness that started to change people’s opinions.
A fellow player was the one who supported her from the beginning. Joseph AdbinWith whom she formed a close friend.
The former pageant queen, now 27, and 25-year-old attorney, exclusively sat down Us Weekly to talk about the game and their relationship – and what the future may hold for the two, who clearly had a connection from the start.
“There was just something really warm and inviting about Joseph,” the Michigan native exclusively tells Us Weekly. “It was really hard that first few weeks of the house. I couldn’t walk into a room without people interrupting a conversation or changing a conversation. My best friend and I felt like my fate was sealed every day. And I’m an introvert on top of all of that. But Joseph, no matter whether I was forced or needed to be in a corner, you would always just check on me and be like, ‘Hey, what’s going on?’ And for someone to even care or feign like they could care, even a pinky amount about how I was doing, it was very, very difficult in that house. And Joseph was willing to be a friend to someone that everyone was painting out to be the most disgusting villain.”
Joseph tells Use, “I was trying to let her know in some aspect, just please stay hopeful. Keep your hopes up. … For me personally, I think Taylor’s hilarious. She is an introvert and so she does like to be alone, but when she would come out of her shell here and there, I was like, ‘OK, you can’t be funny and run away. I love to laugh so get back here.’ For me, it was definitely humor. I am able to come off as a joker. Sometimes, I need to let people have their space and just take a step back. That was a fine balance. I was trying to navigate with her initially because I wasn’t too sure. We’re all strangers still trying to get to know each other.”
The Florida native had his eyes on her from the beginning, he explains: “I kind of saw Taylor a little bit right before we walked in. That was why she was always on my radar. I was like, ‘God damn.’ So even on premiere night, when I walked in, the first thing – which I just, like, hours ago find out I’m coming on the show – I’m like, ‘Where’d that girl go?’”
They were separated when he was voted off the game during Dyre Fest week. Taylor was sad to see her closest confidante leave, but she won the $750,000 in a 8-1 vote against her personal trainer. Monte Taylor.
Not only did Taylor’s social game carry her through, but she made a final two speech that will go down in history. “When she was making her speech, I was like, ‘There you go, girl,’” Joseph, who was beaming with pride at the time, tells Use. “That was the nail in the coffin. We’re good. I was like, ‘This should be unanimous.’”
The game is over and the pair have spent the last few hours together enjoying their relationship and having fun. Both, however, recognize that there’s a lot they need to process before they label things.
“We spent a lot of time apart, like, literal weeks apart and in those weeks, I had a lot of people messing with my head trying to make me doubt any friendship [or] relationship with Joseph,” Taylor says. “And I’m still trying to work through that. And then there’s just the nature of being in the game for so long and being separated from the people that can support you and love you. So, walking out, I need to make sure that I’m taking care of myself first and that I have my own stability, my own head on straight. I don’t wanna be too dependent on Joseph to help me through that. He’s literally the best support system ever. It was obvious to everyone that he was the best support system in the game. But I don’t wanna jump into a relationship, almost trauma-bonding with someone. I just want my head to be clear. He’s good. And then we can really work on exploring.”
She adds, “But, these fans are hilarious. As if we will literally be sitting together, laughing at each other’s tweets, and wasting hours talking. It’s just so funny because we love clowning each other, clearly. These fans will also clown the hell out us. Like, it’s the best thing ever. So, we’re having fun. We’re making sure we’re taking care of ourselves, but yeah, I’m not gonna let go of Joseph anytime soon.”
He agrees, saying that there “was just so much for both of us to process.” Joseph continues, “We’ve been away from each other for so long and kind of getting the full picture, even till today as we start to talk and piece things together, we’re still kind of seeing how things played out and why they played out the way they did. We just take it all day by day. We do just naturally love and enjoy each other’s company. So we won’t allow any pressure or anything to force something. But at the same time, you know, this is just like how it naturally occurs and we’re just going day by day and enjoying things, and getting a full picture, decompressing the whole situation. It’s been such a unique and great experience, but regardless, you know, we still have each other.”
This time Taylor and Joseph, who fans affectionately call #Jaylor now, won’t be forced apart. “We have the time,” Joseph says. “And I told her this before, ‘This time I won’t disappear to the yard.’ And we do have that luxury, so there’s no reason to rush it. There’s no reason to overload or overstimulate. Let’s just take it slow. Taylor especially, was in the house for longer. She won. She had a lot more that she was facing with, so a slow and steady pace is how we’re kind of going with this.”
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