I was never good at dating. As a serial monogamist, I’ve “dated” a handful of people, and went on to marry my best match. I understand that not everyone is as lucky as I am, and that it can be difficult to date. Online dating can be a daunting world. Super overwhelming. Many dating apps cater to younger people (think Tinder), but there are many online dating options for older people.
As someone who is approaching forty quickly, I often think of the classic meme, “I’m almost forty, but I still feel like I’m 20 until I hang out with some 20-year-olds. Then, I’m like ‘no, never mind, I’m 40.’” The same could be said for dating sites. Although, if you’re down for a “chill hangout” or whatever the kids are doing these days, Tinder or Zoosk could be your scene.
But, if you’re looking for someone that you may have Continue reading in common with and can hold a conversation with, the sites below are moreYou are likely to find a partner. (No guarantees!) I’m referring to Carrie Bradshaw, who has entered the world of online dating. And Just Like That… it’s probably worth a shot. Right?
You may be widowed, divorced, or both (condolences Carrie B.You may be looking for someone special, or you might be already divorced. For more information on the best dating apps, read this article.
Bumble
Pros:
- It’s an app that empowers women in their dating life. In an attempt to level the playing field, it’s up to the women to start the conversation (in hetero matches).
- You can choose to see only verified users to eliminate any possibility of catfish.
- Although it’s a free app, you can optimize your filters and searches with Bumble Boost and Bumble Premium.
Cons:
- If you match with someone, you only have 24 hours to message them, before you are “unmatched.”
- The app doens’t specifically cater to an older crowd, and anyone above 18 can sign up. However, you can customize your filters to suit specific age groups. Your profile will only be visible to people who are within your age group.
Elite Singles
Pros:
- The website states that 85% of users have “an above average education.” These are people more apt to be in a professional career, successful, and Not living in their parent’s basements. (Fingers crossed!)
- The basic membership option allows you to test out the basic features for free.
- Premium memberships have more features and use a staggered subscription, which is less expensive for longer memberships.
Cons:
- A paid subscription is a good way to get more from the app.
- On the free version, you won’t be able to view photos and messaging will be restricted. Premium users are also able to access the Mobile App.
Hinge
Pros:
- It employs a Nobel-Prize-winning algorithm that ensures more quality dates.
- The profiles are extremely detailed. The free version allows you to add up to six photos and answer three prompts.
- The app is transparent, with no anonymous or hidden likes.
Cons:
- It can be difficult to find six quality photos of yourself that you can add to your profile. I know, because I needed one for my byline and couldn’t find one decent picture. If you have an incomplete profile you won’t be able to send “likes.”
- You’ll have to put in more of an effort to match with someone than just a swipe. Filtering through profiles and sending likes, matching, or messaging can take a lot, but it might be worth it.
There is no universal dating app that works for everyone. And unfortunately, like dating itself, sometimes you won’t strike gold on your first download. But don’t give up! You could be one click away from the right app and the right relationship.
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